It starts with a subtle change – perhaps they ask you to repeat yourself more often, or the television volume creeps higher each week.
You notice they’re missing parts of conversations, or withdrawing from group discussions.
It’s natural to feel concerned for a loved one whose hearing might be deteriorating, but approaching the topic can feel delicate.
The key to success lies in patience, empathy, and respect. Hearing loss is deeply personal, and addressing it requires sensitivity.
At A Better Ear, we help individuals, and their families, navigate these conversations every day.
Here’s how you can positively influence your loved one to take proactive steps towards better hearing health without feeling pushy or overbearing.
Start by choosing the right moment. A calm, private environment without distractions creates a safe space for an honest conversation.
Begin with a simple observation, such as, “I’ve noticed you’ve been asking people to repeat themselves more often. Have you noticed that too?”
This approach opens the door gently, allowing them to share their perspective.
Listen without interrupting, and if defensiveness arises, it’s okay to pause and revisit the topic later.
Planting the seed of awareness is often the first step.
Empathy is crucial. Imagine how challenging it must be to acknowledge hearing changes, especially when they might feel like a sign of ageing or loss of independence. Frame the conversation around their wellbeing and quality of life.
For example, you might mention, “I worry about how missing parts of conversations might make you feel left out or frustrated.”
Highlight benefits like staying connected with loved ones, enjoying hobbies more fully, or even reducing risks associated with untreated hearing loss, such as increased cognitive load and social isolation.
It’s also important to avoid guilt or coercion. Instead, focus on encouragement and support. Let them know they don’t have to navigate this alone. Offer to attend an appointment with them or help research options for hearing care.
At A Better Ear, we specialise in patient-centred care, creating personalised hearing solutions that empower individuals and their loved ones to take control of their health in their own time.
Remember, best-practice hearing rehabilitation isn’t just about hearing aids. It encompasses improving relationships, boosting mood, and maintaining independence.
When your loved one feels understood and supported, they’re far more likely to embrace these benefits and take action.
If you’re ready to take the next step, A Better Ear at Hub68 in Ormiston is here to help. With an evidence-based approach grounded in empathy and clinical excellence, we’ll guide your loved one through the process with patience and understanding.
Sometimes, starting the conversation is the most important step – and we’re here to help you.


